Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The most important thing is to never stop questioning” Albert Einstein
Three friends from Belgrade Miss Past, Miss Today and Miss Future came to Palic to spend a weekend. They chose the most romantic hotel “Prezident Palic“. They made a dynamic program of the weekend: Friday night is reserved for the nearby authentic Vojvodina’s farm restaurant. On Saturday they will visit the Lipizzaner farm and enjoy the Palic wines in the wineries. Lunch will be in a fish restaurant overlooking the lake. The afternoon is designed for sledding in the snow. Sleds pulled by horses around the famous farms, and will spend the night in the spa and wellness center of their hotel. Sunday are earmarked for walks and visiting the ZOO. The Sunday lunch will be in the famous restaurant in the center of Subotica.
The first night with drinking wine, eating the local food from Backa kitchen and music of tambourine, three best friends enjoy the time in a women’s talks. Miss Past, the lawyer, talks about the details of her past job in a foreign company where she spent ten years, but she left it three years ago. Her current job is in the private local company where she fully depressed and not coping in new situations.
Miss Today, the life coach and psychotherapist, is known as a woman with an attitude that can befall in every situation and swim in all time and knows to be in the right place. “Remembering the past is quite natural. Our memories of people, places and good experiences can be valuable and worth from time to time. If we accept that we learn from the past, and unpleasant memories may be useful for us occasionally. When you live in the past, appreciate the present and missing the chance to enjoy in the present moment and prepare for the future. “- said Miss Today, after a song that touched their heart.
Miss Future is a web designer and tries to understand why Miss Past likes the past job. She carefully selects the words: “Dear Miss Past, it’s nice that you treasure the nostalgic experience of your former job …. Let’s imagine what will be you’re the future job. You’re in a transitional period. Everything passes like this wonderful evening. Listen the song …”
Miss Present finds the peace of paper in her magic. It is the list of useful learning how to use past, now and the future. She smiled and is happy to share all the tips with her dear friends:
Discover the real reason why you are living in the past. What’s that in the past was so much better/worse than today? What can you do to your present circumstances to be better than your past experiences?
Set the life goals and make plans for the future. If you aspire to be happier tomorrow, it is less able to look back on the past. Dream your aims come true! Do not limit yourself to thinking “that’s impossible “.
Get a life coach. If you need extra motivation to focus on the present moment and the future, find a life coach.
Appreciate what you have now. Forget about what you’re missing. Even if you feel that you need a lot of things to achieve your goals, be grateful for the present moment and for all that you have.
Separate only five minutes before you fall asleep and think of all the positive things that happened during the day. It can be quite simple experiences such as a conversation with someone you love, a delicious dinner with friends, the comfort of the bed, hugging a loved one or a memory of something funny that happened over the day. All of these “little things” that should be respected!